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Below, a primer on the best and worst careers for your mate. Since most people are petrified of the dentist, many have lovely, patient personalities. Engineers: With an education that leaned heavily toward math and science, these men are practical, reasonable, methodical and dedicated. Crazy hours come with occasional deadlines, but these pass. Pediatricians: Get ready to have a cold a month with a baby doctor in the house. The income is unsteady and his guitar obsession is anything but cheap.
Men who date lawyers will sometimes find themselves overwhelmed, but the strong ones quickly recover and rise to the challenge of debating their lover in all things, from politics to whose turn it is to do the grocery shopping.
If he is having a tiff with his sister, he can almost be sure that his lawyer girlfriend is going to step in and try to mediate the situation. Women lawyers are pros at negotiation.
Many of them take their skills and use them in relationships and parenting. A man who dates a lawyer knows that she is smarter than he is in a lot of things. He also knows that she has experienced a large number of different situations, whether through her personal life, her education, or through her work as a lawyer.
She has met numerous different types of people and has attended a wide variety of events. She has the life experience that makes her so incredibly interesting to men. That is not too shabby. While young lawyers still have school debt to pay off, by the time they are done paying off their loans, they will probably be making a lot more than what they started off on.
Gone are the days when men entered into a relationship expecting to make more than their girlfriends. In fact, the millennial men love it when their girlfriend makes more than them.
Lawyers are busy people who are dedicated to their work. This can be a good thing for guys who like to work on their own projects. For example, if the boyfriend is an artist or a writer, he will absolutely love the free time he gets when dating a lawyer.
Suddenly, instead of always having to beg for time alone, he automatically gets the free time he needs to work on his personal projects. In return, she won't feel guilty about not being around all the time. It is a win win situation. One of the top reasons why anyone would want to date a lawyer is simply knowing that if he or she ever needed legal help, their partner would be there for them.
In a way, it almost sounds like the lawyer is being used, but that is not really how it works. For example, my ex-husband always knew that if he needed a cover letter written or his resume spruced up, he could come to me.
I am a writer and I could whip up the perfect cover letter whenever he needed one. If I needed help with a printing or computer issue, I would turn to him because he worked on computers all day long.
This is the same thing. Couples are strongest when they combine their skills and create the ultimate partnership. Bringing someone home to meet the parents for the first time can be a nerve wracking experience. Not so when he is dating a lawyer, though. Women lawyers are freaking impressive. Mom will automatically love her and dad will keep his big mouth shut.
In fact, instead of her having to impress his parents, his parents will be actively trying to impress her. It is a nice change for once. The one thing a woman lawyer is not is clingy. Men are attracted to women who are secure, and a lawyer has every reason to feel secure. She is educated, she works hard, and she is worth every penny she makes, plus more. Lawyers give men the personal freedom they need.
Lawyers know how to stand up and take control of any situation. In fact, they thrive on it. Men who date lawyers know that they can step back and let her brilliant mind take over. For far too long, society has treated women as though they were delicate, beautiful idiots. Thank goodness the world is changing with the millennials. Marry the man you KNOW and love, and who loves you… that is the most important thing.
Lets be honest, a mans profession is more than important to every woman. I have been divorced once, single now but have experienced many different relationships with many different professions. I believe that too many people put more importance on what the outside looks like than what the inside looks like! Every single relationship I have been in, my partner has cheated! Then when they realize that I was better than what they chased after, they come begging for forgiveness!Dating a Doctor
I have been told by many of the men that have been my partner that I can be very intimidating sexually. Maybe that is why they continue to cheat on me?! So why do they?? I guess I scare them! Maybe being with me, they take a good look inside themselves and get scared at what I bring out in them. Ladies AND gentlemen please take my advice and just be honest with the one you love, it will save us all a lot of time!
Suggested Revisions and Additions: Best? Teachers: Yes, summers, Christmas, and every other conceivable and inconceivable holiday off, leading to a militant sense of self entitlement and rapacious salary greed virtually unheard of, apart from every public service sector worker in Quebec or Greece, of course.
I would date a doctor, a lawyer, an artist, a musician, a ateliersjisseo.comlly anything . I'd learn new things from them either way, and I am very open to different. We have friends who say, “I could never date a lawyer” or “how do you . If a doctor is still single by the time he's out of med-school, make it. With the sad state of the dating world and the economy these days, you may Dentists: It's like dating a doctor without the crazy hours and the annoying beeper . I dated a lawyer before the guy I am dating now: the pros – he had money.
Among the best paid for the education and cheapest human beings in the Western world. Dentists: Previous studies showed dentists among the highest suicide rates, by profession.
Engineers: Uh, when did engineers graduate from being anything other than horndogs and beer receptacles? At his 9 to 4 job? Maybe investment bankers, but everyday bank managers, not so much. Lawyers: Oh dear—I have to agree. Not even a snarky comment on their assessment. Musicians: Could also be a bit tricky, since the very traits that make them good musicians might also make them unreliable and moody [see Novelist].
Cripes—they make as much as teachers! Wow, Ihere I thought women were like men and married for love. Now I find out it was important for my wife and all you other ladies out there to make sure you marry into a secure, stable future. It seems that the person who wrote this article is a woman who thinks the best marriage is one where she can stay home and eat bon bons while her 1.
What about YOUR job? What should men be shopping for? Should a man make sure his woman is worth it before he asks for her hand? What about that dowry, I hope you are coming to the marriage with money and a good education.
And since I am a man lets see those hips, child bearing? I like perky boobs and a nice tan so you better be ready to come up with some pre-marriage proof of perfection. Oh and most men like their women pure the day of the wedding. I will of course require a certificate from your doctor certifying….
I love this comment: Wow, Ihere I thought women were like men and married for love. Some of you need to relax and take a deep breath. I believe the article was intended to get you to at least THINK about what career you are marrying into and the pros and cons that come along with each.
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You are naiive to think that you just fall in love and marry! Sure — then you think about it later and whine and complain because your doctor or lawyer husband is too busy for you. Read articles like this FIRST just for research — take the information with a grain of salt and imagine what life will be like — and if you think it will be different than the author says — just wait a while.
These articles are just for networking — you know — two heads are better than one etc. That my friends, is the root of todays problems with relationships, money, assets etc. Nobody can wait! You forgot one important thing. When troops first get in they are full of it because they have been trained to a high level off of the get go. Once the training staff get a hold of him they have to install a since of do or die. Abuse can happen in any relationship regaurdless of occupation.
Look further in to your studies before coming to a conclusion. It is better to be thought of as stupid,then to open your mouth and prove them right. I found your article interesting and realize it is only offering things to think about when considering a mate. I agree with all of your points and realize you are only pointing out the trends. There are exceptions to every rule but certain professions do attract certain personalities for sure!!
He said last night he would stop any child of his working in the field, due to the insane hours and poor pay. You have to have a passion for the job and accept the fact that all your friends will be in the same field. Only high School educated? You would be very hard pressed to find a police officer being hired these days with only a high school education.
The hiring process is very competitive and certain standards must be met prior to even applying.
Just driving around? Yeah, right. Try being a public social worker, parent, guardian, law enforcement officer etc all at once. You have no idea what daily activities are involved. Bad partners? My fiance would beg to differ and the fellow officers I work with are just as great as any other person.
You, are a moron. Engineers are geeks…. To get into engineering you have to be near the top in math and science and the intensive training circumvents any possibility of social development during critical formative years. The work means extended periods of concentration excluding the possibility of a balanced lifestyle. Too often they get so involved in work for so long they forget they got married and later go on to another serial relationship. I know…been there done that…and many peers have experienced similar circumstances.
That being said…An engineer willing to leave the lifestyle to devote time to a relationship long term can be an excellent intelligent partner. It has nothing to do with profession.
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Stay the hell away from them. They will suck your soul dry and replace it with dark energy from an unknown Universe they secretly communicate with. Well, talk about discrimination! Perhaps there are studies indicating trends as to what type of person would be attracted to doing such a job but why not try getting to know the person you are attracted to and THEN, decide.
I wonder if guys spend their time coming-up with these articles just to populate this web-site? Have been unhappily married to a dentist for over 20 years and have never crossed paths with a well adjusted dentist in all of these years. Dentists have one of the highest suicide rates of all professions. That says something! I totally agree with the real estate agent opinion.
They truly do suck to date. When they have time, it is great, but when they are busy, they are very busy and nothing else matters to them except closing that deal. And when a deal falls through they are all depressed. Totally stressful life and stressful to date. Although I may agree with your list to a degree, you forgot to mention real estate agents as well not to date! They donot know how to slice up their commission checks, stashing away money for taxes, etc. Any deal, any time of the day is what makes them live!
And finally, accountants. There IS more to life then ones work or profession.
Focus on the person, not the profession. There are no hard and fast rules or guidelines. I have to agree on the para military part, as I have worked with police officers before and they all except maybe a couple seem to over exert their power as well as involve themselves in some not so nice activities.
I was married to a politician and I work with youth from many walks of life, now the street youth will you tell the reason politicians and police will not push to clean up or change the laws of prostitution.
It is because they the police and politicians themselves use the services of sex trade workers again abusing their power. Imagine my shock when my ever so loving husband whom at times would come with me to speak to youth in trouble and even worked with police himself was caught using prostitutes, after all of his talks with the youth on not wanting to see them fall to the streets.
Not 3 mos later two of his colleagues names would also pop up for the same thing. No respect for me or our two children. And I always felt sorry for some of the wives of certain police officers, as well as the wives of idiot politicians, as nothing is a secret on the inside of the circle of politicians.
I know longer work with the police but still stop to chat with a couple of them at my home town and the next. I hope that the wives of these men open their eyes, like I said times I am shocked other time not. I am married to a police officer who has 3 years of post-secondary education, and is an extremely devoted husband and father. It is sad that so many people have such a ridiculous misconception about these hard working men and women.
Or perhaps every police officer should refuse to work for a day or two… see what happens then…. Police are para military and women are higher risk of experiencing abuse in relationships with military or para military partners.
Do your research. Obviously you are misinformed about the education a Police Officer must have. These days most Canadian police officers are university educated, and at the very least, college educated. Their job involves much more than cruising around in a squad car. Please get your facts straight.
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Totally disagree with the top comment. I am married to an Engineer who has 4 degrees in Engineering, I have never met a more giving individual.
Dont forget, dentists are extremely rich! Its not anyones profession that makes the person its how hard you work at it that does and how hard you work at your relationship that matters. If it means shorter sleep for me then so be it, as long as she is happy and she is very happy, then I am happy. Any profession has there stresses and the one you love should be what helps you get through your day, whether its thinking of her or finally seeing her after a long day.
Making her feel like she is the world is what matters. If you think I am one of those guys that has to be good to a woman just to keep her, think again too. I am good looking, charming and quick on my feet. I just want to treat her right, no having too. You could date or marry one lawyer and have a horrible experience but date or marry another one after and it could be exactly what you were looking for.
WOW…I am really surprised. I have dated a poilceman,bartendar and lawyer. I have to say I was a bartendar, private investigator and now going through to be a lawyer BUT an employment lawyer. There are different types and kinds of lawyers, I am not the norm, that is for sure! I have recently started to see an X that is now a retired cop. No we are not near 65, but he still does some cop things….
A Lawyer dating doctor can have several perks. Most of the high-profile lawyers look to date and marry someone who comes from a respectful. I am a corporate lawyer and my husband is a dentist. It's a very interesting combination and yes, we do get along very well (touch wood!!). From nurses to doctors to, yes, lawyers, men love a woman who is We women brag all the time about who we are dating and the guys do the.
He also knows I am not joking and i have a lot to offer him as he does me. It takes two to make a relationship work, it should all just come naturally yes, but at the same time if you want it to seriously work then you need to work at it.
I do not suggest anyone waste their time with anyone that makes others a priority and you an option…. I love my alone time as well, so it just depends are you bot a missing piece to your partners puzzle or just filling in a gap for a short time?? What happened to dating and marrying for love? He was in school doing a science degree.
We also generally drink a lot as well. Your sir, are a genius. Given the shouting, strong language and tone of your letter not to mention the spelling and grammatical errors I can see why you would have trouble dating a teacher.
Most doctors/lawyers I know marry people on the same level, or are at least professionally accomplished. Of course, you can't generalize and. Women want to date doctors but men lust after human rights lawyers and journalists! So why are these professions the top dating turn-ons?. Whether you're searching for single doctors, hoping to date a single lawyer, or fall in love with a single executive, you couldn't be in a better place than with us!.
Teacher my butt!!! First off, I love my time alone. I have dated an attorney, schedule and stress was bad. But, the hours spent working did not bother me.
The stress I seen him go through was something I would not and could not handle. I suppose that is why he is an attorney, and I never chose this field of work. I am now with a guy who works in Law enforcement. And the specific job he has can sometimes call for him to work throughout the night, a couple of hours of sleep, and back to work. He does not have a set schedule as someone who is a patrol officer, which of course can also cause a long night, depending on what happens.
After a year of dating, which I will admit, was hard due to phone calls that I did not get on time, and I recall once we both took the day off from work, at the last minute, he was called out. For the entire day! He always told me I was very patient with his work and appreciated that.
After one year, we moved in together. Which of course helped alot. We have been together, 11 yrs in July. I do worry about him at work. I do not let the thoughts take over. With me being the way I am, not needy and love my time, our relationship has worked out great. I will say, I do not have any friends who can tolerate this schedule. Im sure there are other females out there who can tolerate the rough times of not being able to follow through with plans, phone calls not on time, and the danger of the job.
Why are we not married after 10 yrs?
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